We know that Coronavirus COVID-19 is causing a lot of worries for people, we aim to provide information, guidance, support and reassurance during this challenging time. CHIVA have developed dedicated information for professionals, parents and young people on COVID-19 and HIV to provide updates on recommendations and evidence as received.

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Talking to Others

 

It’s not unusual for a parent or parents who have HIV not to tell their children about their status. This is because they might worry about how their child will react, whether it will upset them too much and be a burden, or whether their child will tell other people.

It’s also quite usual for young people who live with a HIV positive family members to find out by accident, e.g. through finding a hospital letter, overhearing something, or by looking up the types of medicines their parent(s)/carer is taking.

If you found out in this way, without being told directly, you may have felt, or may still feel scared, confused or angry. This is a perfectly normal reaction to the situation. It can be very difficult to work out why some important information was kept from you by your close family. Unfortunately HIV is something which a lot of people can feel scared about, and even though your family member may have really wanted to tell you they have HIV, they may have been scared of what your reaction would be to finding out.

If you are are young person living with HIV yourself, you may wish you had been told earlier about your HIV, and wonder why this information was kept from you. As we have said above, usually the reasons for not sharing this sooner, are based around wanting to protect you, and for fear of the outcome, and not because of a lack of wanting to tell you.  Lots of other young people we work with have been through these experiences, and they have helped us to write these web pages to help you.

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